First off I hope everything works out, but the pessimist in me says it won't. That is mostly because I've seen quite a few of my friends relationships come and go because they had differing views on sex. Put religion on top of that and its a volatile mix.
My main bit of advice is to make sure he is doing something to resolve his issues. If he decides he is not willing to change, then you will need to decide if you are willing to live your life with him as is. Also, it's going to suck but, cut out all the sexual activity. It's just making it worse. You'll just have to take things into your own hands, which is why god invented the jack-rabbit. (my wife's theory is it was invented by god to make up for putting up with men anyways).
Oh and what the hell kind of answer is "very intimate" for not recipricating oral sex??
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