Well if you guys weren't official....then you might still have a chance. However if a guy I was dating fooled around with my friend because he got wasted and couldn't control himself it would be an immediate deal breaker. You wrote letters to her and say it was "Love at first sight." Well I wouldn't be able to forget that happened between them and end it.
She might react differently...but thats how I would deal with it. I would find someone who wouldn't screw around on me while I was away. Its probably going to hurt her and she'll leave you.
So hope it works out.
Keep us posted,
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