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all i can say aphrodite, aside from a combo of ratbastid, abaya, and seaver's posts, is that i feel your pain. i really think this sounds like a timing issue, and you're the one who has to decide whether to cut bait or not. the only thing i think you can do in this situation is collect your thoughts, and i'm guessing this forum is a part of that process for you; then go back and force him to have a nice long conversation about it. there is nothing wrong with what you want, and most guys would want that kind of girl.
just remember this: you can't go into a relationship with the expectation that someone will change in a way you desire. if you can't accept the way this guy is, right now, then i'd say you might have to let it go so he can work on finding himself.
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