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Just throwing this out there (and I don't really think it applies directly in this situation), but just to be clear: Not wanting to have sex is not necessarily a direct tie to religion. By rejecting religion or any type of faith, one does not NECESSARILY need to reject all behaviors of its followers.
I just found it interesting that its assumed since he is EX-Christian, he is all for sex out of wedlock (and yes I know he had sex with 4 girls, but as someone pointed out, he could be feeling regret for that).
Anyway, in this case, I would agree that he is mainly concerned with his performance.
Aphrodite, you say you don't understand why he would think you would leave due to bad sex. Well, that shows you do really care for him, however, I can assure you I have also seen posts on this board before in which others endorsed breaking up due to sexual incompatibility, so his aprehensiveness is not completely unfounded.
Best of luck.
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