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The thing about the "not being ready" thing is that he's had sex before... and with at least 2 of the girls, it was done much earlier than the 4-month mark. There was one on the 2nd date and another after a few dates. If he were still a virgin, I could understand not being ready, but he's had sex before. He has said he's "learned from his mistakes." But he didn't love the previous girls, and they didn't love him... yet he and I love each other and sex is an expression of love, something he hasn't experienced yet.
I don't understand why he would think I'd leave him if the sex were bad. I wouldn't give up everything else we have because of that... especially when you can get better if you're willing to learn. And I've told him I'm willing to teach.
As for the oral sex thing, yes I've told him every girl is different so even if he were experienced, he'd still need to ask me what I like. I've sent him links to websites that explain how to give good oral sex to a woman (they weren't pornographic - just merely instructional), but still nothing.
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