What I don't get (and I think you're similarly confused) is why he won't reciprocate. I'm he's getting oral from you, so you'd think he'd at least have the common courtesy to offer. Religion aside, I think this guy has some hangups. Only you can tell us if the relationship is worth trying, so you're the one that's going to have to put in the work.
Honestly, I think the penetrative sex is off the table for now, at least as far as he's concerned. It sounds like he's either not interested or so gunshy as to make it uninteresting. Consider that a long term project. However, I don't get why he'll happily receive oral and not even offer to perform it on you. Maybe you should offer to instruct him on exactly how it's best done. That's something that I've actually asked women at the beginning of the sexual part of a relationship since what works for one is almost guaranteed not to work on the next.
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