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Deltona, I'm not sure if you thought the previous post was from me (I'm the original poster), but that was someone else. Sorry, I may be misunderstanding your post, but it sounded like you were confused when you said, "You asked for our opinion, and we are giving it. So relax, and listen with open ears."
Anyway... yeah, the lack of oral sex reciprocation is really starting to bug me. I told him I think it's selfish and not fair. He said he doesn't want to do it because it's "very intimate." So I said, "Then why did you let me do it to you only 4 weeks into our relationship?" And he responded, "Maybe I shouldn't have let you." So the ultimatum of, "If you don't start doing this, I'm going to stop doing it to you," is only going to backfire in my face.
Yes, I think he is definitely trying to figure out who he is and what he wants to do with his life.
And no, I don't think it's an STD thing.
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