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I think what you really need to figure out and have a long serious discussion about is if he doesn't want to have sex because of his beliefs, or because of his fears.
You are both adults, and have spent more than enough time together to get to the bottom of this. If he is just scared, the act of acknowledgment is the starting point to work through his fear (however slowly or quickly.) If it turns out to be a faith based belief he has or if he won't admit he's scared, there is nothing you can do personally to change that, other than support his own change, if it comes at all.
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