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Well his previous girlfriends were probably Christians, too, and they dumped on them because they thought themselves promiscuous (as if it's a bad thing) andf that insecurity led them to lash out. You should remind your boyfriend that the sex actually reflects the love. People who love each other almost never have bad sex. I've never had it with anyone I've loved.
Coming out of the dogmatic morality of Christianity is a long process, so he may need space. It wasn't until over a year after I left the flock that I realized that I'll not be meeting my grandfather in heaven. Heavy stuff, right? Like I said, a long process. Help him, encourage him, and do your best not to rush him.
One thing that stuck out to me, he needs to return the favor asap. I mean it's one thing to come to terms with the fact that there almost certainly is no god...it's something completely different not to return the favor. That's just rude.
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