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Well another issue is that he's told me he thinks he's bad at it because 1) he doesn't have much experience, and 2) girls have actually TOLD him he's bad at it. Girls #2-4 were one-time only deals (not one-night-stands, they actually dated), so he seems to be equating sex with girls leaving him.
He's no longer Christian, but he's still very immersed in researching Christianity and dealing with all of that in his head. I definitely do not see him returning to it. I think the biggest issue is that he still has morals and ethics he grew up with that are the result of formerly being a Christian, not necessarily tied to being Christian. It's hard to drop something you were taught for so long. Most Christians have premarital sex, it's the fundamentalists (like his family) who do not.
What do you think it could be, if it's not the other options?
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