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I've been exploring dominance with my husband lately, with interesting results. I find it much easier to try new things when there is no pressure, and no funky black-leather outfits to wear (not that I dislike black leather, but I'm still getting used to the idea of domination in general... dressing like a traditional mistress is going to take some getting used to).
So I went with kitchen utensils this time, wearing nothing but an apron for myself, and the whole thing went pretty well. We enjoyed ourselves. It wasn't what most people would probably think of as 'domination' but it worked for us, and most of all I felt more comfortable doing it than I would have with leather props. I also have some carpentry tools that I've transformed into sex toys for domination (including a carpenter's belt), so I look forward to trying those out later.
All in all, this is the beginning of exploring a new arena for me, in something that (as MM said) turns my partner on and thus makes me happy to try it. I am resolved to continue exploring this domination stuff and seeing where it takes us.
Making out with a woman is always appealing to me, but the fantasy would be hard to turn into a reality at this point. It's not really a resolution since it's not something I can just run out and do, but it's something I would like to try someday, if the circumstances are right.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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