Hi Jennifer, Yeah, that time right before graduation is intense! Not knowing what's in store for your future can make you feel depressed and scared. Sorry about the guy dumping you. Those first boyfriends are hard to get over, but you will - it just takes time. Stay busy and try some new activities. That will help a lot. Why not try to get to know some of those acquaintences you run into around school? Bet they're feeling scared now too. Have coffee with one or two of them. Go to see some art at a gallery. Play a sport. Hike somewhere. Whatever gets you out and about will be good medicine for your soul and lift your spirits. When I was nearing the end of college I started to form some new friendships with other girls who had just broken up with their BFs and we had a lot of fun being "single again". Remember that your life is just beginning and there are some many interesting adventures yet to happen for you! I wish I were in your shoes! It's a great time to be alive.
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