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Originally Posted by ngdawg
A little story: When I signed up here, I used a name that would be recognizable to a very few-it's a play on an old site name I had. I liked TFP so much, I put a link to it on that site.
I went on a 4 day trip and while I was gone, the spouse went to that site and, finding the link to here, clicked on it. It didn't take him much thought to figure out who I was and read everything I posted, including my lament about my marriage and my not-so-good confessions about fooling around behind his back.
Nope, ain't joining anything that even has the remotest possibility of having me be found again. I don't know who is in Facebook. I enjoy TFP, but it has to be a separate thing.
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I had a similar thing happen a couple years ago. I let a guy I had recently started dating know about TFP, and how involved I was with it (all my friends are quite used to "On TFP we were talking about..."), and he got on the site (no problem with that) and then proceeded to read some very revealing journal entries I had made, including one about him (a debate whether or not to keep my fuckbuddy while dating this guy...oops).
Needless to say...we kind of drifted apart after that.
My current SO still hasn't joined TFP, won't join TFP, has no desire to join TFP, yet will accompany to any TFP meetup I ask him to. He generally likes the people here, but respects that this is my private Internet space. And I love that about him.