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I think it has alot to do with how things are presented, and interpreted. As an example, when I read the thread title, I assumed you were a swinging couple, and there was a problem. Then after reading the OP, I was first curious as to the extent of "no sex" in an "open" relationship. Is this absolutely no type of sexual interaction? or is this "no intercourse sex" meaning kissing, touching, oral? or whatever is ok? To make a SOUND judgment call here I think we should have a little more information here. It may be that he has developed feelings for you that are deeper than originally thought. We can't judge against him for that. Nature is a funny thing, and if there is any messing around going on, many guys can EASILY develop feelings that are deeper than a "friend with benifits" type of thing. Cierah, can you please elaborate a little more? I would hate to offer my opinion without more information. As most people on here know, I have been in open and closed relationships my whole life, so I feel that I can offer some good advice, but I need more info first.
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