finger, aneros, butt plug or plain old-fashioned dildo (large or small).
the same rules apply for the male as the female:
Too much lube is just enough.
Easy does it to begin with.
Relaxing is easier with deep breaths.
Practice tightening your a-hole to begin with, so you become accustomed to the sensation and ability of relaxing it afterward.
Anal play for men. Ace.
(Mostly i've only got good stuff from myself.)
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"I do not agree that the dog in a manger has the final right to the manger even though he may have lain there for a very long time. I do not admit that right. I do not admit for instance, that a great wrong has been done to the Red Indians of America or the black people of Australia. I do not admit that a wrong has been done to these people by the fact that a stronger race, a higher-grade race, a more worldly wise race to put it that way, has come in and taken their place." - Winston Churchill, 1937 --{ORLY?}--
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