Frequent masturbation can reduce the enjoyment you get from oral sex. For guys, at least. There's also the possibility that she's not very good at it, or that you're trying too hard to set a mood, when the most important thing is usually just being relaxed and comfortable.
I would also recommend taking a look at what you think about while you masturbate. If she's not involved in your fantasies, for example, then you've got some fish to fry.
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