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					Originally Posted by lightmayo
					
				 My suggestion for you as a father is to have kids of your own, you will then understand what it's really about love and being loved. 
 The birth of my son lead me to a emotional secured level like never before, I got into better terms with my father, children is a gift for us to treasure, it's not a burden to anyone
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 I have a 5-year-old daughter.  I came to terms with my feelings about my parents long ago.
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I agree with you 100% as it pertains to myself.  However, not everyone in the world (or on the TFP) would agree with about children being a gift and not a burden.  I do not hold a grudge against my parents for not wanting children.  I don't hold a grudge against anyone for that matter.
Some people just are not cut out to raise children ...