Originally Posted by yelizaveta

"you don't get to be angry with her"? What, is rape some sort of cop-out pass you can use to make people feel so sorry for you? Of course, a guy shouldn't get mad if a gf has issues with sex because of rape, but that doesnt mean that a girl who conceals this fact until marriage by saying she wants to save herself and then can't fulfill her husband's expectations in bed at all should be pitied, because then the marriage isn;t on honest ground anymore, and obviously this girl had no respect for the guy she was marrying to be able to do that to him!
If I was in this situation i would be very upset because I couldn't handle a relationship with some one who isn't as sexual of a person as I am, and if i am only finding out that they aren't as sexual as i am after i marry them, then I wouldn;t be able to get out of it too easily, now would I?