Personally, I don't think sex is treated with enough reverence and respect by enough people these days anyway.
But, there is a fine line between treating sex with respect, and being prudish and sexually repressed. Both are very destructive and will adversely affect relationships and how you interact with people, particularly members of the opposite sex.
Like everything else, it's all about a healthy balance. Our sexual urges are something we really can't deny. Wanting to fuck is nothing to be ashamed of. But how we go about it and accepting our responsibilities and consequences is another side of the coin we always have to keep in mind. But is that really different from any other facet of life?
If people choose a path, it should be just that, a choice. What these farthers are asking of their daughters is not to choose, but to blindly comply because that's what their customs dictate.
I don't like the idea of teenagers running around fucking anything that moves without really considering the consequences of what they're doing. But I don't like the idea of them being guilt tripped into shutting off their sexuality either.
Sexuality is a very personal thing, and people will awaken to it when they're good and ready. I hate this idea that certain parts of society make you feel like a prude for not having sex enough or early enough, and other parts of society are the polar opposite. Oh and it shits me no end that no one will bat an eyelid to promiscuous males, yet god fucking forbid we have too many sexually independent women who do the same thing. To be honest, what business is it of anyone elses unless you choose it to be?
I will back peoples choices 100% as long as they're comfortable with what they're doing, know what they're doing, and can handle whatever consequences there may be, oh, and what they're doing isn't hurting anyone else.
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