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Originally Posted by punch_drunk
I think she wouldn't have told me for some time, if at all, if I had not found out. I found out because one of her intimate conversations printed on my networked printer for some reason (Divine intervention?).
Although it killed me, I waited awhile longer to confront her in order to gather more information. It turns out she took a vacation to Disneyland with her online friend's roommate. The trip was originally intended for two former work friends that I knew and trusted. Instead it was with a stranger- a lesbian. Upon her return, I confronted her, and she tried to turn it around and make it a thing about me spying on her. It has been convoluted and confusing ever since. One excuse after another. Two more days until I see my therapist for some clarity on the matter.
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I think this is a big nail in her coffin. I mean she lies about who she was going with and then tries to shift the blame on you for "spying?" This is a desparate measure usually employed by a guilty party. With this information, I disagree with ratbastid and say there is fault, and its hers. All signs are pointing to "she cheated on you" and the next step is between the 2 of you and your daughter.
Don't stay together "for the child's sake." And don't split up soley because you think she is unfit to raise her. You three have issues, big time, not just need, intamacy or her new-found bisexuality. She crossed the line into trust, thats a big one.
Good luck.