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Old 05-30-2003, 02:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
worried_one
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I'm over her. Is it ok to not be friends?

Well I'm sure you all know about the long drama revolving around my background. Search for another post by me, and you'll read all about it. It's like an epic struggle.

Anyway, I'm dating other girls now, I've finally discovered on my own that her dumping me is the greatest thing that could have happened to me. Her life is a mess, mine is improving every day. Friends and family don't understand why I would ever want to be friends with a girl like my ex-gf...and I honestly do NOT want to be friends.

But I don't want to come across as a bitter asshole in front of her. I want to appear friendly but I know that eventually she's going to want to call me or talk to me and "be friends". What's the best way of letting her know I have no intention of being friends with her? Should I just not answer her calls? Or should I be blunt and tell her I don't want to be friends and explain why?
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