Originally Posted by Hektore

Truth. Your first time is about what you're doing and who with, who cares about where it is. There are so many more important things. Penning something like this into your schedule I doubt is going to do any good. I'm guessing if you're ready to go 'all the way' you've gone 'part of the way' already and without a hotel room. Now that you're both comfortable with the idea, just let it happen naturally one of the times you're fooling around. There will be way less pressure and you might actually get to enjoy it.