fuelmyfire

yeah, it's a bit of both. i was basically getting at the fact that, yes, my girlfriend specifically had it done....but also wondering what others' opinions were on the subject.

when i mentioned before that "i am not most men and she is not most women", i am referring to many things.
for example, i have an extremely low sex drive, but she has an extremely high one.
she knows i find nipple rings and that sort of thing a major turn-off. she is always commenting on my low sex drive.
why....WHY would she have these done then?
it just makes no sense to me...even if she DID really want to have the piercings done, wouldn't she consider that this would have a negative affect on me? why would she want me to find her less attractive??

i don't want people to think i am some sort of a control freak or something. i'm so far from that. i am very tolerant of the few differences we DO have. in fact, her and i are very similar when it comes to style (fashion likes and dislikes), music, world issues, lifestyle, many of the typical "man VS woman" things that couples constantly disagree on.
it's just these trivial "preference-clash" things that i wonder about. they're not killing me, i just simply wonder about them.

i mean, obvisouly i'll accept these things because we are far too connected and involved with one another to have a silly relationship-shattering grudge about things like this. they're just not important.
...but i still question her motives, you know? what if it all actually DOES mean something?

in a long-lasting, loving, hopeful relationship, what makes a person want you to be constantly thinking negative things (asthetically) about them? what's the point?
is she trying to test if my love is true or something? to see how far she can go until i can longer take it? she already knows that time will never come. i love her to death.

yes, that's right. i'm asking for advice in the Nonsense forum!