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Originally Posted by cadre
As far as personal experience goes, my boyfriend was a virgin the first time we had sex and I did not know. I really wish he had told me though because I would have gone about it differently. I'd be the same way with this I think
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And that's exactly why he shouldn't have told you. Not because people having sex should be dishonest with each other (I don't think failure to tell is dishonesty unless she asks you and you say something untrue), but because there's the chance that it will make things all awkward and unfun. Just calm down about it and let things happen as they may.
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