Well said, pigglet.
I find myself in a similar position BlackKittyKat, 'cept I'm more of a hanger on as I've never dated this woman I'm interested in (not for lack of trying). We've been friends now for nigh on 18+ years, and are very close. I'm pretty sure she's just giving me the "polite brush-off". It's very difficult to be found wanting by someone whose opinion matters so much to you. It's like poison to one's esteem and one's masculinity (femininity in your case). Your choices are to either suffer on with little hope, or move on completely. Neither is an appealing choice, but I think moving on would be healthier. Personally, I'm not quite ready to do so, though.
my 2¢
"How do you write women so well...?"
"Easy, I write them just like a man, then I take out reason and accountability..."
:P
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