Say something, or just roll with it?
Howdy all :-)
I was talking to a friend of mine the other day, and we came to a disagreement, and I'm keen to know what others think. So to give you some back ground, as of next month it will have been 6 years since I last had sex, it might seem like a long time, but honestly, it kinda just wooshed by, but I digress.
You see, my friend jokingly said "How on earth are you going to keep it together when you next have sex, it will be like loosing your virginity again hehe". My response was that I would probably just be brutally honest and tell my next partner that it's been a while, and I'm a bit on the nervous side. My friend thought that was a bad idea, she thinks that would be a total turn off for most women, and what I should do is just be cool and roll with it.
I can understand where she's coming from, but still, getting that off my chest and out in the open will mean I can be cool and just roll with it. I'm an honest guy, I don't like hiding things.
So I'm keen to know your thoughts. Ladies, if guy told you that it's been a while, would you think less of him, would it put you off, what would your reaction be? Gents, what do you think you'd do in that circumstance?
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