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Originally Posted by pigglet
have you been sleeping with this girl, and now you have to break it to her that you're just not that into it? if so, then welcome to the minefield my friend. suck it up and get out now, because its just going to get worse. usually the way you say it is some version "this isn't working for me; i'm just not feeling it." then she gets pissed off and hurt, like we all do, and the friendship usually dies. maybe you pick it up after a bit, but for a little while you won't be hanging out. get your cds now.
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We haven't gotten to that phase, and I won't let it get there. The most we've done is "made out" once. Because I don't feel anything, I won't let it go farther than that. She does deserve to be with someone who finds everything about her attractive, not just some things. I believe the same for myself. I found my ex attractive in every way possible. Not that I'm looking for the same things since any new relationships won't be the same.
We met thru a dating service. I loathe the "bar scene" and simply couldn't be arsed to do any traditional dating. So, I paid someone to do the searching for me. We've dated for the last few weeks, mostly enjoying each other's company. I usually have a fun time when I'm with her, but I never feel anything romantic. So, it's definately not that I won;t give her a chance. Far from it. I wanted to make sure I gave her a chance, and it turns out that i'm simply not physically attracted to her. I'm personally not comfortable with that idea, however. I feel like i'm shallow just because of that.