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Okay, I'm new to the site as of today, and I realize this thread went comatose a few months back, but question for those that have partaken in both the BDSM world [at any level] and the swinging world. Which came first for you?
For us it was the BDSM world. And as we grew into our personas, and the trust level in the relationship grew exponentially, we were able to take the physical nature of our relationship 'outside.' We rarely partook in the BDSM activities outside, but often I would 'push the edge of the envelope' with my sub, and she responded confidently, practically glowing in her new explorations.
Would love to hear your experiences!
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