You'll find better deals from private sellers. I'd look around and consider it. You can probably even find a manual. There's a model of Subaru which is basically the STI in sheep's clothing. With a price to match. A 2000 or something might be in the 10k range but I can't think of the name. Any specific models you two like or things you want it to be able to do?
Good luck!
And yes, it is very stressful sometimes. I'm looking to buy a motorcycle right now so I know what you feel like.