This might sound dumb, but do you have sex with the lights off? Your body responds in two different ways to sexual stimulation, the first is a "hey there's a hand on my cock" response that is responding to physical stimulation and is controled by nerves in the lower part of the spine, the second is the "damn, look at those tits, I'd like to give them a pearl necklace" type of reaction that we generally get when we experience something that we are attracted to, and this response comes from the brain. I was thinking if you could decrease one area of stimulation (i.e. the visual part) then maybe you could last a bit longer.
Or maybe this is because you're experiencing a form of performance anxiety.
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