do you think its possible to re-sensitize yourself to porn? Ive been looking at porn for like 10 years (currently in college) and now ,for example, when i look at the titty board.. i just don't get aroused. perhaps im desensitized or worse, i need harder stuff to get aroused. i guess im just worried this will extend do when im with a woman, the first time (and last) i was with a girl, and we were about to go at it .. i couldn't get it up
so .. do you think if i lay off the porn (and the hand) i can be more stimulated by porn as i once was? i want to achieve erection on command!
another thing that worries me is that the many yrs for which i have masturbated have conditioned me to become aroused only when i use my hand -- this is simialr to stories ive heard about men who watch much porn becoming impotent because they can only become aroused using their hands and getting off.
thoughts? similar realities/experiences?