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Brew, I read this this morning and it kind of rocked me. I have had both a best friend and my father commit suicide. It is never (ever) easy on those who are left behind.
The lists and lists of what ifs and should haves can overwhelm just as much as the anger at the person and sadness over the loss. Know that suicide is, as Analog suggests, a personal choice. The selfish choice was made and those left behind are left with nothing but pain and confusion.
Take heart that the pain subsides over time (though never quite completely).
My thoughts are with you and your daughter. PM me if you want to chat.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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