To be clear, I agree. Nobody *needs* to cheat. That was sloppy writing on my part. My intention was to say, sometimes it's what you *want*.
I still stand by my assertion that cheating, while a betrayal, means nothing if you don't get caught. The only person you have to live with is yourself (see the post about looking yourself in the mirror).
It is just one of the *many* consequences of choosing to cheat on someone you "love".
I am not advocating the act of cheating per se. What I am saying is do what you want. You just need to know that there will be consequences (from petty to serious). Just be sure you can live with them.
King knows what he wants to do. I am not Dear Abby and I refuse to take the high horse on this. I simply take the stance that he should weigh the consequences. If his wants are greater than the consequences he has his answer.
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