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king,
here's my peace:
imagine yourself in 6 months. look into a mirror; who do you want to be looking at? if you had a conversation with that guy, what would your reaction be to his side of the story? you know your situation; none of us do. does your girlfriend deserve this? what agreements do y'all have in place? what is the nature of your relationship, and are you satisfied with it? does she scratch your balls at night so you can fall asleep more peacefully?
how much of a pain in the ass can this 19 year old be? is she stable? are you looking at being caught in the cross-eyes of a horseshit masquerade showdown at the ok corral?
are you ready to lose everything for this tail, and do you want to lose everything. is that what you're ready for?
in my experience and observation, these situations normally self-implode. it looks to me like you're inviting melodrama into your life. maybe you're not ready for the level of commitment your current relationship has evolved to. maybe you're scared that you are ready for that level of commitment.
are you ready for this?
the most important thing, in my opinion, is that you reflect on this internally and determine what you think and feel about it. move outwards from there. you'll come to a conclusion, and you'll act on it.
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You don't love me, you just love my piggy style
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