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Here is how I look at it. At one time, I dated this chick for 3 years. I was living with her parents whom I loved. However, the relationship with this girl who I will call "Christine" (not her name) was miserable. I mean I was really unhappy.
The reason that I didn't get out of the relationship with Christine when I should have was that it was a major inconveniance. Her parents were so incredibly cool -that they treated me like a son that they never had. I really loved them. Their daughter on the other hand -was making my life miserable.
Now I had several opportunities to cheat when I was dating Christine. I never did but really wish I had. One time for instance, I was at a party when another ex-girlfriend and her friend were hitting on me hard... Yes, that's right I turned down a potentially great threesome just to continue the waste of time with Christine.
After the relationship with Christine was over -what was left? Sure I moved on, I had other girlfriends and eventually met my wife but that time with Christine in my eyes -was wasted.
So have your affair if you can. As long as nobody gets a disease and that there are no kids involved -then I don't see a problem.
One thing about the nineteen year old... be warned that if you do break it off with your current girlfriend and end up with her -she will probably cheat on you as well. You know that whole rag about what comes around...
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