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Originally Posted by Charlatan
I don't believe I have ever told anyone *not* to cheat. I am giving King the advice I give anyone thinking of cheating.
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I didn't name you personally, but as long as we're talking about your advice, it was frankly terrible. Sure it might be fun for King to screw around on his girl, but we also must think of the girl in this situation. Advising someone to purposely and needlessly hurt another person just to "get it out of your system" is not good advice.
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Cheating is a selfish thing but sometimes it's something you need to do (for whatever reason).
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Here we completely disagree. You do not NEED to cheat. You don't NEED to have sex with multiple women. You WANT to do it. The pop-psychology movement of the 80's and 90's got a lot of people confused on the difference between "want" and "need" because mature adults realize that what we *want* must sometimes take a backseat in consideration of others. So people who want to play at being mature adults replaced "want" with "need" in order to mentally justify doing things that might hurt or upset others. "Gee, can't help ya. I NEEDED to do it."
Only trouble is, that whole concept is bullshit. King does not *need* to cheat on his girlfriend. He *wants* to. Once we look at it from that perspective, the advice should become clear.
if you *want* to have sex with this girl, do the responsible and mature thing and break it off with your current girl first.