Generally, when people go into asking for 'advice', they already know the answer-they want validation.
If I were to ask everyone 'was I cheating?', I know damned well I was or I wouldn't think twice about doing it or ask others about it.
I don't think that's the question here.
Should he 'come clean'? Hell no.
Should he question his own motives and his next step? Yes. This girl he's finding himself into could be the love of his life. She could also just be a warning sign that things need to change. And this is why he has to pursue the issue, if not her. Time will tell....
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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