Best thing you can do is be totally honest. You were drinking and you made a mistake. Also you need to ask yourself if this new girl is someone that you could have a relationship with, or care about on an emotional level. In other words, if this was just a physical thing, come clean, and move on. If there may be more to it than that, than perhaps you need to take a break and sort out your feelings. Is the new girl worth giving up the old?
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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