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A personal trauma is terrible, but that doesn't mean it's perfectly fine to keep it from a person you are marrying- because they aren't just getting you, they're getting all of your issues, too.
She was holding out on a BIG secret. It's not fair to him at all. While he has no "right" to know about it, he should know that the woman he's planning on marrying has seriously traumatic psychological issues that she isn't even treating in any way.
That's a pretty big lie of omission to start a marriage on, regardless of the circumstances. I don't understand marrying someone knowing for a fact that there are things you will intentionally lie to them about- and not something small, either.
And if you're that badly traumatized that you can't tell anyone- not even your fiancee- then maybe you should think about waiting to tie that knot.
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