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Thanks for all the fast replies. I finally talked her into going to counseling/support group and she has been going the past month. I can't really vent to anyone becus she's asked me not to tell. Don't get me wrong, not really angry at her, just angry over being blindsided like this. Now there's stuff I have to come to grips with, ie feeling selfish when we have sex and I know she really doesn't want to, but I have a ROARING libido, so it's double edged sword! Guess she feels bad that she threw it on me like this and feels if she tells me "no" too much, that it'll make things worse. There was actually one time where she enjoyed herself, but that was due some heavy drinking we were doing that night. I saw a different side of her, she really got into it, even climaxed, which freaked me out b/c it sounded like she was crying, but I guess that's just her climax call lol.
Does it make me an azz to still initiate sex from her, when I know it's hard for her?
If I could find the guy and put my hands around his neck I would!!
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