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					Originally Posted by AuroraWolf
					
				 
				So, now we don't have sex for two reasons; I'm not horny and he isn't willing to make me horny. And he's frustrated with me! 
			
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 To recap, he didn't always get you off the first time but since you two were so active it didn't matter.  Now it's only one time he's willing to do - whether you climax or not?  This naturally led to frustration on your part... which makes intimacy difficult/impossible.  Which means he's frustrated (bah).
Both of you need to show some interest in pleasing each other.  Without that you can't even begin to work on the deeper issues.