An interesting read. I have differing thoughts regarding the affirmations, "I don't want to spill my milk." When you say this your subconscious mind picks up, "...spill my milk!" That is very disempowering. Use positive, powerful words like, "I am an amazing love and I control my ejaculation easily and effortlessly!"
This WILL produce a huge difference.
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Enjoy and I hope you found this useful.