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One approach is to educate him into the type of thing you like by doing it for him.
Or doing it together.
How about you plan a romantic weekend trip somewhere (doesn't have to be expensive - could be a local motel with a bottle of baby oil for a massage, and a walk in the country for a home-made pic-nic).
If you make him realise that doing softer more amorous things has a pay-off for him (slow gntle sex can be just as mind-blowing as "rutting" if it's done well) then h might add it to his emotional and amorous pallette.
Or ditch him and get a new man?
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