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Originally Posted by Deltona Couple
While I agree with you about it not being a bad thing, as he had admitted, it is causing trouble at work. If it is causing problems at work, then there IS an issue to deal with.
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You are correct. There is an issue to deal with, but I think it's all mental. I think he's using masturbation as a stress reliever.. which can be a good thing; but perhaps he should try something else when that desire arises. Find a new website, listen to some music, just relax and take a break and get back to work. You obviously (the OP) know when you start to feel this habit rearing it's head so you should be able to head it off. I'm not sure what type of work you do but there has to be a way to do something active during a break rather then think about how bad you want to blow a load. I know people who ride a couple of miles on their bike during a lunch break just to clear their head and relax. If something like that works for you then you should try it. If it is an actual addiction then perhaps the MA meetings would benefit you. :shrug: