http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=113742
I love my tattoo. I got it about 1 1/2 years ago, but I wanted it for 11 years before I got it. The design is my own, and the only things that changed in the years that I thought about it were the location (instead of an anklet, I got it on my lower back), and I added the Virgo symbol. Everything else in it had been seriously pondered for that time, because it is permanent, and I wanted to make sure that I was still into the same things for a long period of time. Turns out, my interests have only grown with time, so I'm very comfortable having this. If a guy doesn't like it on me, that's his problem, and if he doesn't want to date me because of it, it's his loss. Having my tattoo hasn't changed me. I'm still the same wonderful person I was before I got inked, and I'll still be the same wonderful person after I get my next tattoo.