I've seen a couple of male stripper shows and though I like men's bodies, it seems clear to me that a large amount of male strippers are gay. I wouldn't mind male strippers if they just looked buff but manly. The fact that most times they are dressed in ridiculously tight outfits and do silly dances really turns me off. That and the fact that they look like they dived into a vat of cooking oil.
I've never seen female strippers before and I'm not sure whether I'd like it. I think I'd like it but would have mixed feelings about their line of work...I wouldn't be happy if my guy fancied going to strip clubs on a regular basis.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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