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Old 03-01-2007, 12:08 PM   #51 (permalink)
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I agree that the 'right' thing to do would be to delete them. I don't know whether I would or not, right off the bat.

However, by the time I would get in another relationship, I would. I wouldn't want my wife to have naked pictures of an ex lying around, so I can't really expect myself to get away with that either.

If the relationship didn't end horribly and she was a sweet person, and it was an all-around good relationship, I'd probably keep them for a while, so long as I was single. Not to beat off to (that would seem weird somehow), but as something to use to cling on to the memories with in an unhealthy fashion.
I actually thought more people would have thought like this.. however it seems that about half of you are on one side of the issue while the rest of us reside in that hazy gray area. To me I agree that the pictures hold sentimital value and I value those memories just as much or even more so as the ones of us on vaction, with family, ect... I also find it extremely interesting to those who look at this with the attitude that keeping them is "perverted" and comparing it to looking at her through her window, or making a copy of her house key. Now while i respect their opionion I can only hope they respect mine. I do not keep them soley for the purpose to beat off too, I can easily close my eyes and remember our times together. I don't need the photos for that. My idea for this post was to explore the ideas of knowing what to do (In this case I think most can agree that if she askes you delete them that the "right" thing to do would be to delete them) and fighting that inner most desire to hold on them, even if she doesnt understand why. They say that being in love makes you do crazy and illogical things. Well maybe this is one of them. Its easy to say on the outside to forget and move on, which is happening, but the world doesnt work that black and white.
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Would I need to delete every picture that I have of her because I might fantasize about her, or imagine what she looks like naked under her clothes?
Does this then mean that I'm going to have to delete her pictures of her at the lake in a sexy as hell red bikini??!!? say it isnt so...
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