ok honestly, I WANT something like that to happen between myself and my girlfriend. HOWEVER I want that to happen TOGTHER with her, and not just randomly exclude me. What bothers me about this entire thing is that you seem so...lax about it. Oh it "just happened" and I didnt "want" to do it. If you didnt want to, you didn't have to. You CHOSE to do that and you should realize that. I still don't even understand the situation but just give him some time to decide what he wants to do.
Oh and if your the type that just let things happen like that, I wouldn't be surprised if it "just happened" again. I'm not trying to say that once a cheater, always a cheater but the way you described the situation leads me to believe this. I wish you the best either way.
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