Every situation is different. I don't think she did anything wrong, especially if in the end the wife was grateful. It may not be part of her job, but if in this situation it did no harm, then I don't see why se can't be human. I see the point made by Analog and I think for some cases, it's perhaps not the right thing to do. It's not part of the job. But every case will call for different decisions.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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