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I find friends when I'm not looking. They come in all sizes and shapes. Sometimes the hunt becomes too consuming and you overlook the obvious. I've been reading this thread and two things are obvious to me.
1. You're looking to hard. Take some of the pressure off yourself and enjoy life. Everyday is a gift so take advantage of it. You seem to lead a good life and you seem to be a good person. Relax and the rest will come along.
2. You have friends because by one definition, friends are people who care about you. People in this forum must care because they took the time to respond.
Life is like a flower. Some bloom fast and die quickly, while others mature over time and bloom endlessly. You are who you are, don't try to force the issue. Today the situation may seem diffcult. Tommorrow you will be the one giving the advice. The key to having others like you is liking yourself. So relax, become your own best friend. True light shines brightly. Start seeing the forest through the trees. I'm sure there are people around you who are good candidates for companionship. You just are looking to hard and are to hard on yourself for not finding them.
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